Here is the truth. You may not recognize it at first; but if you want to transform your life (REALLY transform your life) you will be open to entertaining the possibility. The truth is that everything you experience “out there” comes from inside. Everything is responding to the power inside you. You’ve probably heard that before, and you probably understand it intellectually and on several levels. But to fully benefit from it, it is necessary to start living accordingly.
I have a challenge for you – a challenge that, should you accept it and follow through with it, will empower you beyond your expectations. You will no longer live at the mercy of other people, circumstances or physical ailments. It takes courage, determination, and a willingness to let go of all previous perceptions and see things differently. You will naturally only take this challenge and complete it if you want to change your life enough to do what it takes.
It costs nothing financially, requires no physical effort, and will take very little time. The biggest investment (and it is big!) is a willingness to open your mind to a new perspective. It’s taking the “red pill” in The Matrix. Not everyone is ready or willing to do it – and that’s okay. But if you have reached the point where you will do whatever it takes to change your life – even if it means letting go of what you think is “reality” (think: Neo in The Matrix again!) then here is your opportunity.
It is a simple adjustment, but not an easy one. Here is what you need to do:
- From this moment on, become hyper-aware of what you are thinking and feeling; and whenever you catch yourself thinking, feeling or saying that anything outside of you has affected you in a way you don’t like, stop.
- In that moment, remind yourself that there is no “out there” out there. Nothing can happen in your life that is not a perfect match for something inside you. Now, this is not about blame or fault; it’s about empowerment. If the only way you can be affected by the world around you is if there is a match for that experience inside you, that means you have the power to control your experience of the world around you. You have no power to control what is outside of you, but you do have the power to change what is inside you – and that is where the “remote control” is to your experience of life.
Nothing outside you can make you feel anything you choose not to feel. Nothing outside of you can make you think or focus on anything you choose not to think or focus on. You have more control than you may realize.
3. Once you have reminded yourself of this, use the FasterEFT technique to tap on the experience. This will help you to change the record in your subconscious that is causing your experience. For more detail on how that works, read: The REAL Cause of All Your Problems.
4. Whenever you find yourself feeling anything less than good, or thinking thoughts that don’t feel good, use the FasterEFT technique – right there, in the moment. FasterEFT is a direct way of accessing that remote control inside you, to change your experience of the world around you.
Here’s the Biggest Challenge:
This applies to EVERYTHING! This means that your experience of the person you work with, your loved ones, the neighbors, the government, the weather, the economy, politicians, the media, people on social media, illness, physical health, friends, the unexpected circumstances, a parking fine, a speeding ticket, an accident, a theft… you get the idea – everything is controlled from inside you.
When something happens, when someone says or does something (or fails to do or say something), when things go wrong, your first port of call is inside. The sooner you interrupt your natural initial reaction and choose to look inside you, the sooner you will be able to change your experience. By look inside, I mean: Remind yourself that the remote control is inside you; and then use the FasterEFT process to tap out the feelings, thoughts and memories that come up in that moment. Remember, you can use Mental Tapping if you are in public or too tired to tap physically.
Will You Do it?
If you are freezing, and someone tells you there is a warm coat and a fire just around the corner – all you need to do is walk there – would you go? How about if you don’t believe them? How about if you’ve been told there are no warm coats – they’re a myth – and fires are an impossible dream, would you take a walk around the corner, just in case. If you really, really wanted to get warm, and you were able to walk, you may well take that action.
If you really want to transform your life and live the life you choose and dream of, you will take this challenge. If you don’t want it enough – that’s okay too, of course. It is entirely up to you. You are the boss of you. You are the only boss of your experience.
For guidance on how to use the FasterEFT technique, read: The FasterEFT Technique – Step-by-Step.
To see FasterEFT in action, watch the FasterEFT in Action Playlist.